Cheating

Can Sex Chat Be Considered Cheating?

As sex chat services become more popular and widely used than ever before, this is the question being asked by men and women alike worldwide. Given the fact that sex chat doesn’t involve any kind of physical contact whatsoever, can it really be considered cheating?

The answer…well, it depends entirely on whom you ask. Nothing you read or hear will ever change your own personal opinions on the subject. If you see sex chat as cheating, you see it as cheating. Nevertheless, if you’re completely on the fence and undecided, there are a few important points to consider.

First and foremost, anything that puts your relationship in jeopardy is something that should be approached with caution. But at the same time, it’s been proven that sex chat services have the potential to strengthen and improve relationships, depending on the circumstances and those involved.

On the whole, one of the most important things to consider is your perception of emotional sex. As far as some are concerned, physical contact isn’t necessary to have the most meaningful sex imaginable.

In which case, you may find yourself being accused of cheating. Even if technically speaking, you aren’t.

What is emotional sex?

Emotional sex refers to the kind of sex you have without actually having sex.  Contradictory? Perhaps a little, but it’s actually pretty easy to understand.  Emotional sex takes place when those taking part feel the same kinds of feelings they would associate with physical romance. Feelings of lust, longing, attachment, infatuation and even love.

What’s important to remember is that all feelings associated with sex are simply hormonal and chemical reactions within the brain and body. The hormones and chemicals associated with sex can be produced and released just as abundantly and effectively with absolutely zero physical contact required. All of which means that without ever having any kind of physical sex with another person, you can still technically feel and enjoy the connection on almost exactly the same level.

This is what experts refer to as emotional sex.

Does emotional sex count as cheating?

Again, opinions differ significantly from one person to the next. Nevertheless, there are pretty convincing arguments as to why emotional sex can and often does count as cheating.

It’s a little like attempting to draw the line between being cheated on and being told by your partner they’re in love with someone else. In the case of the latter, the partner in question technically hasn’t cheated, nor do they have any intention whatsoever of doing so. Nevertheless, the damage done to the relationship is exactly the same.

On the flipside of the coin, you could argue that an affair that never actually becomes an affair has the potential to be healthy for a relationship. No physical cheating takes place at any time, so there’s technically no guilt to worry about, either. It all comes down to personal interpretations and outcomes, which differ significantly from one relationship to the next.

Drawing the Line

Truth is, only you and you alone can determine if and to what extent sex chat services are cheating. If you think they are, don’t use them. If you don’t, go right ahead!

If you do decide to give sex chat services a try, it’s also up to you to determine how and where to draw the line. There’s a big difference between reaching out to other adults for a bit of dirty talk and actually seeking full sexual encounters, or perhaps even new relationship opportunities. Sex chat services exist to provide a relatively simple and straightforward service – nothing more and nothing less.

In fact, attempt to take things beyond superficial sex talk and you’ll probably be booted from the site permanently!

Are You Prone To Cheating?

Contrary to popular belief, most people who cheat don’t actually set out with the intention of cheating. They don’t proactively pursue affairs, or even one-night-stands.  Instead, it’s something that seems to happen completely out of the blue, usually taking those involved completely by surprise.

While it seems that some people are naturally more inclined to cheat than others, much of it is circumstantial. Depending on what’s happening in your life at the time, you may find yourself more likely to cheat than you would normally be. In which case, you probably need to consider your actions carefully.

For example, if the relationship you are in doesn’t fully satisfy your sex drive, you’re naturally more likely to consider alternative options. Your willpower and ethics will determine whether or not you go ahead, but chances are you will have at least considered outside intervention…so to speak.

The same also goes for relationships facing general turbulence and tough times.  If for any reason your relationship isn’t going particularly well, it’s almost impossible to avoid daydreaming about potential alternatives. Even if it’s nothing new and you know you’ll get past it, these are the times when you’re most likely to cheat.

Believe it or not, self-confidence issues can also play a role in determining the likelihood of a person cheating on their partner. Something that applies at both ends of the scale. Those with little to no self-confidence sometimes find themselves powerless to the advances of those who show them attention and affection. At the opposite end of the spectrum, those with too much confidence often feel as if they can get away with anything…and attempt to do so.

Of course, it also goes without saying that if you are a regular drinker or user of recreational drugs, you’re far more likely to cheat than those who abstain.  Anything that has any impact whatsoever on your ability to reason and make sensible decisions could potentially lead you down a dangerous path.

The Joy of Sex Chat

Admittedly, all of the above may come across as contradictory and vague.  Certainly not a comprehensive answer to the initial question. But this is because there isn’t an answer to the question – it all depends on whom you ask.

Whatever your own personal opinions, sex chat services can be incredibly enjoyable and even beneficial to a relationship. It’s simply down to you to determine whether or not sex chat is right for you!